You know “relationship”?? Of course you do. Its like jumping into a ship together. Most people have firsthand experience and even if you don’t, you hear your mates talk about it all the time. Of all the other more important and intriguing things in life, love has its very powerful strength. It can make the poorest people happy or the richest people empty.
I’m not a love guru myself, though I’m happily satisfied with my relationship. Anyhow I think relationship is not as simple as a lot of people says, “Just fall in love and let it flow. Be yourself and let your emotions run wild”.
Anyone who does exactly that must be out of their mind.
It is true that you need to be yourself and not fake it. But sometimes, you also need to observe, learn and compromise! About letting your emotions run wild, sure thing. You should tell people you love them and shows your affection. Yet you still need to conserve certain things and not exaggerate your action. For example, frequently texting your partner absolutely romantic words to the extent its’ disgusting – not cool. Publicly displaying your affection by tongue kissing (licking here and there, all over the place.... sloppy!!) – not cool. Regularly interrupt an interesting conversation just because you suddenly feel like kissing – SO NOT COOL!
The behaviour that I despise the most? No Trust. What is the point of having a relationship if you do not trust your partner? Constantly suspecting your partner, being overly possessive to the extent that no one can see him/her, get mad at your partner just because your call/text was not replied ten minutes ago or be jealous of every single time he/she laughed with his/her mates is something that would not work with me. I’m pretty sure some people out there would love this kind of control though. Then again, there’s always an exception. If your partner is obviously cheating on you (everyone knew and even pictures as proof!), you’ll be a dumb ass to trust. In fact, if you’ve already been broken hearted twice and yet allow it to happen again, it’s your own god damn foolishness. If your partner doesn’t want you again, again, again and again, don’t be a pathetic and keep on begging. Be graceful and move on! There’s plenty of fish out there who might be much better and is waiting for you.
All in all, I suppose relationship is a game of mind and heart.
ps: special thanks to my mom and sis for their lifelong education. ♥
3 comments:
i supposed u need to study during this period. but for sure someone had irritated u. i like the verse 'be graceful and move on'
Darling!! Ur like the worm in my tummy (chinese metaphorically saying).. How can I not miss u more? MUACKZ!!
i always read ur mind dear.. hehe... miss u too.. u must well plan ur FEW DAYS in m'sia. spare a day for us. mayb we can have sleep over, which we din do it together for very long.
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